See but not what its look like?

Sometimes feel that things doesn't sound like what we look at it ...we thought that is easy as we thought but it could be difficult as a maize puzzle, keeping you stuck forever if you didn't understand or find a way out. Something can distract your mind, someone can attract you out of sight....somewhere and somehow.It's is a method that we need and must face it as we are responsible to? or we are desperately? or we are trying a new way to settle it? or we testing our ability? Last week just went out with some old buddies, we had share some our family, work,friends problem. it's seem that all of us have different kind of obstacle to go through, but just the way we deal with it. As one of my friend said , each family have its own rules and regulations, only we can do is try to solve it and share with others the journey that we go through....either in a easy way or a hard way ..
Some family show that they are one of the member in that family, but did they really a family? Do they really care about each other? Do they knew that they are doing something that hurts each other feeling? Do they knew that they are no communication between each other? Or how about their cooperation with each function or gathering that they organized? Only quarrel and hate will appear.